This is not a weird dream but i want to tell you about a few strange things that have happened since my father died about a year ago . When i came back to the family house straight after the the funeral there was a a huge crashing noise at the exact moment my brother and i opened our car doors . A large piece of metal fell off the bonnet of a wreck that was in the back yard and rolled onto a tyre rim that was sitting at the front of the car and made a very loud noise . That piece of metal ( a reinforcement for a bumper bar ) had been resting on the bonnet for weeks and it chose to fall off at that exact moment . Then recently i got up in the middle of the night to have a coffee and a lamp in the lounge room flashed on and off for a split second , but it was not plugged in at the time . Then one night i was watching a DVD and i felt like a coffee so i paused it . When i came back the movie was playing about fifteen minutes previously from where i had paused it .Then i went to visit the family house which was empty and up for sale . I climbed in through a window and had a look around . It was very creepy . I was in the kitchen when all of a sudden i felt a tap on my shoulder . I froze and had goose bumps all over me . I got out of there as fast as i could and never went back .